The concept of a
monogamous relationships seems odd to me. We could be
possessive of anything and of course
we choose sex. I greatly enjoy
sex with different people and still nothing makes me more angry than people confusing sex with love.
It cheapens love. Sex is an act and true, some label it an
act of love. But I have loved people
more than my own life and never had
sex with them.
Were I to be jealous, it would be of
attentions.
Of time spent away from me.
Of LOVE.
I am not afraid to lose a loved one to someone is is hung like a
rhino, or
fucks like a
mad man. I am scared of losing loved ones to a man who is more
compassionate,
understanding,
humorous,
mild and
intelligent.
People I have known are ok with their loved ones "
secret"
longings for another... "Just as long as it doesn't get physical".
To me that seems so shallow it
saddens me.
Again, I play the
Devils Advocate. I
understand the feelings people endure. I do not know if
possessiveness social or natural but I too used to
succumb to
the green monster. I can respect and even
empathize with
monogamists not to mention
envy them at times.
Sex with someone you love as an
amazing thing, but it is not the only thing.
Life offers many
experiences, it would be a shame to pass them all up.
Jealousy is an
ugly thing and has caused more than its fair share of
strife in this world I am merely
proposing an alternative.
Besides,
group sex is a hoot.
:)